I was 21, one of two girls in my entire computer science program, and I had an opportunity sitting right in front of me. I could have started freelancing as a web designer right then and there.
I didn’t take it.
I told myself the guys in my program could code better than me. I told myself I wasn’t good enough yet. So I did the safe thing and took a corporate job instead.
If you’re an introvert trying to figure out marketing and entrepreneurship as a slight introvert, I want you to know that the story above is exactly why I do what I do now. Let’s get into it.
Most business advice is written for people who light up in a room full of strangers. Post daily. Go live. Network at every event. Be everywhere, all the time.
That’s not how I’m built, and it might not be how you’re built either.
Marketing and entrepreneurship for introverts means building a business around your energy, not someone else’s. It means:
You know that feeling of dread when someone says “just post more”? Same girl. That dread in the pit of your stomach is not a flaw to fix, rather it’s a signal.
Here’s where my story starts. I had just graduated with my master’s degree, and I couldn’t find a job in my field. So I was working at a gym for $12 an hour, waking up at 4 AM for shifts, feeling completely unfulfilled.
That version of me had a master’s degree and was still wondering, is this it?
I started researching online for anything that could help. I fell into self-development books, career books, and podcast episodes, and I dove in wholeheartedly. That shift in mindset is what allowed me to pivot into a pharmaceutical sales job, start meditating, hire a coach, and finally build the self-awareness I needed to see what I actually wanted.
None of that happened overnight. It took years. But it’s the reason I eventually had the courage to build something of my own.
I mentioned that moment at 21, turning down the chance to freelance because I didn’t think I was good enough. There’s a concept in the book The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks that explains exactly what happened to me.
Right before you’re about to level up, you hit an uncomfortable edge. And instead of pushing through it, you sabotage your own growth without even realizing it.
Looking back, I can see it clearly. In the moment, it just felt like caution. Like being realistic.
If you’ve ever talked yourself out of raising your prices, pitching yourself, or starting the thing you know you’re capable of, that’s the same fear I felt. Naming it doesn’t make it disappear, but it does make it easier to catch the next time.
Part of my job in pharmaceutical sales was visiting medspas and dermatology offices. Before every visit, I’d pull up their website to prep.
And almost every single time, I noticed the same thing.
The office itself was immaculate. The services were exquisite. The providers were highly educated and experienced. But the website? Stuck years in the past. Sometimes it didn’t even work on mobile.
There was this disconnect between the in-person experience and what showed up online, and I couldn’t stop seeing it. I had this longing to build something creative and meaningful, and this gap kept staring back at me every time I opened my laptop.
Eventually I stopped ignoring it and started my web design studio. That was the catalyst. Not a grand plan, just a pattern I couldn’t unsee anymore.
Being an introvert isn’t a disadvantage in business. It’s actually an asset, once you stop trying to force yourself into someone else’s marketing playbook.
Introverted business owners tend to be:
The goal isn’t to become someone louder. It’s to build a business model that lets your natural strengths shine through.
Marketing and entrepreneurship for introverts works best when your website is doing the work your personality doesn’t want to do.
Here’s what that looks like in practice:
That’s the whole idea behind letting your website work as hard as it can, so you don’t have to perform to be seen.

If you’re a licensed beauty or wellness provider reading this, you already know how important it is to show up online when your clients are searching. You also know you’re meant for more, but showing up online feels like a lot.
That fear of visibility isn’t unique to you. It’s one of the most common things I hear from business owners.
You don’t have to choose between being an introvert and building a business that grows. You just need the right pieces in place:
That’s what I help beauty and wellness founders build. Not another to-do list. A business that works while you’re living your life.
If your website doesn’t match the quality of your services, or you’re tired of feeling like you have to be loud to be seen, I offer a free two-minute quiz called The Personalized Tech Treatment Plan, and I personally will give you the next best step to create an elevated online presence, without needing any tech experience.
Rooting for you,
Sarah
I hope this post gave you a few new ways to think about using tech in your business.
In case we haven’t met yet, hi! I’m Sarah, a Showit website designer for beauty and wellness business owners who are done feeling overwhelmed by tech to confidently showing up online with websites and smart tech systems. I believe tech should work for you, not against you, and I built my whole business around proving it.
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Sarah Hawk is a Web Designer and tech educator in Rochester, MN who helps wellness-based business owners ditch tech overwhelm. With a background in teaching and pharmaceutical sales, she blends strategy, design, and education to help service providers launch websites that look professional, feel aligned, and support real business growth, without the confusion. When she’s not behind the computer, she loves aesthetic coffee shops, systems, strength training, and testing new recipes for her family.
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